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Monday, 25 July 2016

Forgiveness In Marriage Is Freedom. Final Episode 5.


3months later after Alex Divorced me just because i saved his life by accepting that the robbers should have 5ex with me rather than killing him, it was so painful that he divorced me, but i must move on with my life, My parents blamed me of marrying Alex, my father was so angry to see me back home.
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So while in my parents house, i started my water business again, i stared selling in bags, i will carry it on my head and be moving round the street, i was never ashamed, everybody have known me as WATER SELLER, at a point i stopped carrying it on my head round the street, i now keep it at a particular place, many people have known me already, so they always come and buy. later i started supplying the sachet water to people, i no more sale one by one, i now sale in bags, from there i bought a fridge and the business was growing, finally i now have a small company where i produce my own table water, from small company, it migrated to a big company, after some years, i bought a land and i build a big company for the table water production, i bought two cars, i gave one to my parents, this was just like a miracle to me, am now a big woman.
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After five years in the business, i can now boost of 3 cars, two big houses and many other things.
I got information from someone that my formal husband Alex is now very poor and cannot even feed himself, one day i went out with one of my car, on the way the car broke down, so i sent someone to go and call me a mechanic to come and know whats wrong with the car, after 5mins, the person i sent arrived with a mechanic, i started explaining to the mechanic how the car stopped and i don't really know what happened, when i looked close to the mechanic man, behold it was Alex my formal husband, so you are now a mechanic Alex? [i asked him].
He was surprised and he rushed to hug me but i pushed him out immediately and i looked for another mechanic to repair my car.
I can never forgive Alex, someone i saved his life and he drove me out of his house and divorce me, now that i have made money, he want to take me back.

After six months from the day i met alex, my business was increasing more and more, i now produce bottle water and can juice, One Day Alex called me, i don't know how he got my number, he started begging me to forgive him, i told him i will never and can never forgive him, i rather die than to forgive him.
Its was his turn then, but now its my own turn, Life is turn by turn, what goes around comes around.
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some months later, i fell sick, i was taken to many hospitals but no solution to my illness, the sickness was eating me up and i was dying slowly, none of the doctors could figure out what the problem was, if its money issue i can pay, after i might have gone to many hospitals, i now discover that the sickness is spiritual, so i went to one powerful man of God to pray for me, after the man of God finished praying for me, he told me that the solution to my
illness is forgiveness, he said that someone broke my heart long ago and the person have already apologized to me but i did not accept, he said if i want to be free i should forgive the person. immediately i remembered Alex my formal husband, i narrated the story to the pastor and told him that i can never forgive alex,
He pleaded with me to forgive him but i said no that i can never forgive him.
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[Jane later died of the illness and he never forgave Alex.]

The End.

Let me use this opportunity to advice you, Forgiveness is a must in marriage, no matter what please try and forgive, marriage is for better and for worse, had it been Jane forgave Alex, she wouldn't have died. Forgiveness in Marriage or Relationship is Freedom.

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Forgiveness In Marriage Is Freedom. Episode 4.

So one day after i might have done my business for the day, at 12 midnight something terrible happened to me, i called it terrible because i never expected it, at 12am my phone rang, when i checked the caller behold it was my husband Alex,
He told me that i should not be angry with him that he didn't know what came over him to act in such a way by leaving only me in the house and ran away, he told me that he have spoken with his mother in the village, he said i should go and stay with his mother in the village till he comes back, i was speechless and didn't respond anything, he apologized to me severally and i later considered him, and the next day, i packed my things from the uncompleted building and i left.

I went to the village and started living with my mother inlaw, it wasn't easy to stay with her, she took good care of me until i delivered my baby, i delivered a bouncing baby boy for my husband Alex and i named him Prince.
After the delivery, i took good care of the baby till when he was one year old, but i was not happy, my husband is not with me and am not happy about that, its been over 2years i set my eyes on him, as a woman i need a man, i need someone that will stay by my side and make me feel like a woman, someone that will satisfy my sexual urge whenever am in need of it, i am married and not single, and at that point after waited for about two years without seeing my husband, this made me and i started cheating on him, i started sleeping with some men, it wasn't my mind to do it but i don't have any other option, i really need a man by my side. [body is not firewood].

My mother inlaw noticed that i was cheating on his son, he called him a told him everything.
I know Alex will not be faithful anywhere he is, he must be sleeping with some ladies as well, After 6months, my husband Alex came back home, he have made money, at-least he was looking good and fresh, he pretended as if his mother didn't tell him anything about me,
When he came back, we greeted well and he was happy to see me, at night around 8pm, i prepared his food and served him, he ate and we all slept off, by 12 midnight something happened, arm robbers came to our house, they told my husband that they did not come to rob him but they actually came to kill him, they said someone sent them to come and kill him, my husband pleaded to give them money for them to spare his life, they said no that they have been paid huge amount of money for the job, we began to plead with them, me and my husband were crying and pleading with them not to kill him, the robbers now said he should offer them a tangible something before they can actually leave him, he told them to mention whatever it is that he will give it to them, and they said he should allow them sleep with his wife which is me Jane, my husband said instead of them to sleep with his wife, they should better kill him, i replied immediately to him saying......."Instead of them to kill you, they should better sleep with me" he agreed and the robbers slept with me right in-front of my husband, i wasn't my self, i did this to save his life, and after the robbers finished with me, they left.

Oh! Alex should have been dead but i have saved his life, in the morning when we woke up, i was really surprise when Alex said i should pack my things and leave his house, he said this was how i have been cheating on him since, that for the fact that i allowed the robbers to sleep with me, he can never marry me again, he said that am a cheater.
This is somebody i saved his life with my body, had it been i refused to sleep with the robbers, he would have been dead. This was how Alex divorced me and i went back to my parents.

Watch-out for episode 5 which is the final episode. dont miss it.

Forgiveness In Marriage Is Freedom. Episode 3.

So My Husband Alex gave me money to go and do abortion or i leave his house, i swore to him that i should rather die than to do the abortion, and if truly he want me to leave, he should be the one to take me home and hand me over to my parents, he insisted that i should pack and
leave on my own, Even with my 3 months old pregnancy, Alex gave me a beating i could never forget in my life that very day, he told me that the house will not contain me and him anymore, he promise to either leave the house for me or i leave.

After two days, i never agreed to go back to my parents because they warned me not to marry him but i insisted.
One Tuesday morning when i woke up from sleep, i searched for my husband Alex but i couldn't find him, i thought maybe he went to
buy something, but i waited more than 3 hours, Alex is no where to be found. i still encouraged my self and thought maybe he have gone to work without my notice.
In the evening, Alex did not come home, i now entered my room, picked up my phone and i called him, the number was switched off,
i now became more worried, as i was strolling round the room, i saw a letter which Alex dropped for me, i opened the letter and it
reads....."Hello Jane, i told you that you will either leave the house or i leave for you, please don't bother to call me or to look for me, i have traveled and will come back in the next 9 months after your delivery.
oh! what a terrible moment, Alex left no money for in the house, as a pregnant woman, i need to eat very well and i need rest, i have
nobody to carter for me, my parents will not take it easy on me because they warned me,
how can i feed myself?
how can i survive with my pregnancy?,
i dont have a child to help me or a house maid,
my mother is not here with me.

These are some of the thoughts flowing in my mind, i never knew the world was hard until that very day, i cried until tears dried in my eyes, This was the beginning of suffering,
i began to search for work but i found none because of my condition, this made me to turn to a street beggar, i started begging alms from people, few people were helping me because of my condition, every new day on this earth, i will wake up with tears that is thicker than blood, I saved little money from the money people gave me, and i started selling sachet water and i was surviving with it, i normally sale 3 bags of sachet water in a day, sachet water is popularly known in Nigeria as PURE WATER.

After 5 months, our house rent expired and the landlord met me and demanded for his money, i told him that i don't have any money to give to him, the landlord was provoked and after 2days he returned back and gave me quick notice for me to leave his house, the landlord asked me to pack-out from his house before the next coming month. This was the beginning of my suffering, the landlord was very wicked to the extent that he did not even consider my pregnancy, by then the pregnancy was about 5months and some weeks.

After that very month, i packed out and went to an uncompleted building, i was living there and was also doing my water business.
I was living in the uncompleted building all alone, imagine a pregnant woman like me living in such a place, life was so difficult for me, I suffered what no pregnant woman have suffered before, oneday after i might have done my business for the day, at 12 midnight something terrible happened to me.
I will tell you in the next episode. [some men are wicked and heartless]

Forgiveness in marriage is Freedom. Episode 2

Yes it was more than two months i got married to Alex, there is this secret character which he had, he always use condom whenever he is making love to me not minding that am his wife, not just a wife but a legally married wife.
When i asked him while he is still using cond0m on me, he told me that he don't have money yet to train any child, he said he dont want me to give birth yet because, he will not
have the money to train the child or even send him to school.

The joy of every married woman is to be fruitful and to give birth to children, this thing
became a rare issue between me and Alex, i told him to have faith in God, the God that brings a child will provide for the child. Alex never gave ears to what i was saying.
This thing continued for some months, i never complained to anybody, i believe this is a personal issue which only me can solve, i didn't tell anyone about it, not even my parents.
This issue became a burden to me, what kind of woman will people tag me as? some will say am
barren, some will say am cursed, while some will be gossiping with my name.

I gave a thought to this issue on how to tackle it, but i came up with no idea, all i wanted is to
be pregnant and to give birth like other women. since i have no idea, i needed somebody that will help and advice me on what to do, i have a good friend called Sandra, she was a childhood friend but she never knew what i was passing through in my marriage.
Note:[If you dont share your problems with someone, your problems will remain with you].
So this thought flashed into my mind to share my problem with Sandra, i invited her to my house when my husband have gone to work, When Sandra came to my house, i told her everything, my good friend Sandra now gave me one ideal, she told me to apply this common sense, she said..........

....."whenever your husband is making love to you with that his so-called condom, look for a way to tear the mouth of the condom, if you can play safe and get this right, my dear you will become pregnant"......
oh! what a grate idea Sandra gave to me.
The next day i force my husband to make love to me, i was so thirsty to apply the ideal Sandra gave me, My husband Alex was a very sensitive man, although i was forcing him to make love to me, he never forgot to put on his cond0m,
During that awkward moment when he was making love to me, i never hesitate to apply the common sense Sandra gave me,

After he made love to me that night, within 3 months, i became pregnant, wow! what a miracle idea of Sandra, i couldn't believe it, after some few months, my stomach shoot out and it was now official that i am pregnant, when my husband noticed that am actually pregnant, another serious problem came up between me and him, he said he was never responsible for that my pregnancy, he said he always use cond0ms on me and he will not allow me to put him to shame, i told him he was the one responsible, as we were arguing on the matter, he raised his hands on me and gave me a dirty slap, this was the very first time
of Alex raising his hands on me.

The next day, Alex was ready for a divorce, he said he will divorce me because he noticed that i cheated on him and i allowed another
man to sleep with me, on that very day, he packed all my belongings and asked me to leave his house, i have no other option than to
tell him what i actually did, i told him everything and how it happened, he was very angry and he reminded me of what he told me earlier.

[Alex talking..........." I told you that i dont have money to train any child now"..... you must abort that child.
what! i shouted, i can never do it, i will never abort this child, that same day, he gave me money to go and do abortion or i leave his
house. What happened next is what you never expected.

Forgiveness in Marriage is freedom. Episode 1

I present to you another drama/story titled "Forgiveness in Marriage is freedom" .
This is a story full of humor, emotional feelings, deep thoughts, Lifestyle and wisdom.
The story is been narrated episode by episode. So follow up and make sure you read all the episodes and gain something out of it.

Forgiveness in Marriage is Freedom. Episode 1

My name is Jane, when i was in secondary school i met this young man called Alex, he asked me out to be his girlfriend, i rejected the offer for the first time, but after some months, he came back again and was pleading that i should become his girlfriend, i agreed but i gave him one condition, i told him never to break my heart, he promised me he will never break my heart.

Me and Alex dated so long, i see him as my blood brother, Alex was the one that broke my virginity, it happens that he invited me to his house one day to come and cook for him, after cooking for him, he started playing with me, and the play later resulted to another thing, he broke my virginity that very day, i never regretted it for one day because i love Alex so much.
As time goes on, our love became more stronger, Alex parents were very poor, my own parents didn't have much but they are not poor like that of Alex parents.
My parents never loved Alex for once, they warned me never to have anything in common with him, i told my parents that i love Alex and i cant leave him, its either i marry Alex or i remain single for life.

My father forced me to leave Alex and look for another man, i insisted that i must marry Alex.
On that fateful day, Alex came to our house looking for me, he met my dad and asked him whether am at home, my father insulted him and threatened to take away his life if he did not stay away from me.
Alex returned to his home with anger after the incident that happened between him and my father.
when i heard what happened, i was very angry with my father, that night i did not sleep in the house, i left and went to Alex house and slept, and from that day, i never went back home.
After some few weeks, my parents began to search for me, they later knew that i was staying with Alex in his house, and they knew that they can never do anything to change my mind from marrying Alex, they started pleading and begging Alex to release their daughter.

After one month, they noticed that if i continue living with Alex, he will pregnant me, so they called Alex and told him to come and pay my bride price, Alex didn't have much money, but with the support i gave him, he was able to pay my pride price and he took me home as his wife. what a strong love indeed.
after living with Alex like about two months, there is this secret character he have, i don't really want to talk about it, but because i want you to learn from this story i will tell you the secret character.

Th secret character is this, whenever Alex want to have sex with me, he will be using cond0m, i told Alex that we are no longer
dating as boyfriend and girlfriend but we have gotten married, he gave me a reason why he always use cond0m on me, i will tell you the reason in the next episode.