SEX AM I READY?

SEX AM I READY?

Everyone believes 'There's no smoke without fire, right? Now, let's assume
you are the type that gets suffocated when in a smoke-filled place and you
wants to light a fire but remembers that you won't be able to withstand the smoke when the fire goes off, will you light it up? So also it is with sex! As a
single Brother/ Sister, being ready is
understanding what sex means and what the consequences can be so you don't have problems or regret it afterwards, because they can be huge!

Most of us don't even know when to have sex 'the right time' and when not to! We just believe whatever makes us feel good is permissible for us, without knowing God's purpose for sex and how
He wants it carried out! It is important to know how God views sex, so it won't
be misused! We should also know that there can be physical and emotional
consequences of having sex outside marriage! When you are not ready for sex, it is best not to do things that could ignite your urge, because sex is an addictive drug, the first try always lead to the second and then the next until you become it's slave! It could be so difficult to stop once you've tasted
the sweetness of sex! As a Sister, you might turn into a 'Decent prostitute'!

Decent prostitute loves sex so much, but the only thing that differentiates them from others is that they don't stand on the street... BUT remember, no matter how you try doing it, Prostitution is
Prostitution! Be warned!

As a Brother, you might keep visiting the hotel and be spending your hard
earn money on a 'prostitute'... Be warned!
Sex is not worth rushing into!

Now, the question is; Am I Ready For Sex? This is a personal question for each and every one of us! Are you ready to withstand the smoke from the fire? Are you prepared spirit, soul and body to withstand the heat from sexual tension?

If NO! Then you have to abstain from all
appearance of evil(1 Thess. 5:22). Some of us are not ready for sex, but we keep
putting ourselves in tempting situations like watching pornographic movies, reading romantic books, clicking on nude and seductive icons on internet, staying in a sexually seductive areas,
wearing clothes that promotes sex, going into an ungodly relationship,
engaging in an immoral conversations with the opposite sex and associating with the wrong people! You need to be
dead to sin if you are not ready for sex! Stop playing with sin! Playing with sin
is like playing with fire, and what happens when you play with fire, it will
burn you! My mum keeps telling me CYPHER , sex is more sweeter when done on the marriage bed... So, why the
rush beloved? Remember, 'condoms', 'pills' or what have you can't really do
you any good! All you need do is FLEE! Help yourself by meditating on the word of God, give your life to Christ, you will then receive strength to control
your emotions, because for by strength shall no man prevail!!!

God Bless You All,
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~ Relationship Talk

(MEN ONLY) 10 REASONS WHY YOU ARE HAVING POOR EREC.TION

(MEN ONLY) 10 REASONS WHY YOU ARE HAVING POOR EREC.TION

A lot of men suffer erectile dysfunction and most of these issues could easily be solved. Here are a few culprits you can look into to figure out what is causing you to have problems getting your penis to launch.

1. Lack of Vitamin D: A study has shown that men with severe erectile dysfunction had lower Vitamin D. Get outside and enjoy some sunshine, feast on vitamin D-fortified series, juices, breads and eggs.

2. Diabetes: Erectile dysfunction could be caused by un-diagnosed or diagnosed diabetes. If your ED is sudden, consider getting screened and if you know you already have diabetes, expect this to be a risk factor.

3. Your drinking: Alcohol has a numbing effect on your mind and body, including your penis. If you have issues getting it up and you have also started increasing the amount of drinks you have, including the frequency, then consider cutting back. Heavy drinking increases your risk of ED.

4. Stress: If you are stressed at work, home or in your relationship, it will affect your sex life. You need to be a relaxed to get in the mood for sex. This problem can also be a catch-22, because if you cannot get it up, you start to stress about that too, making it even more unlikely you will have an erection. So, basically, just relax.

5. No coffee: Studied have found that 42 percent of men who drink between two to three cups of coffee a day are less likely to have erectile dysfunction. Caffeine helps relax the arteries and the smooth muscle within the penis which, in turn, helps increase blood flow.

6. Not enough s e x: The more s ex you have, the less likely you are to suffer from ED. What is considered regular? Experts say you can shoot for three s ex sessions weekly.

7. Smoking: The more you smoke, the more you risk your penis abilities. 23 percent of erectile dysfunction occur among men who smoked.

8. Lack of exercise: Exercises, especially weight resistance ones, do a lot to increase a man’s testosterone which helps reduce the likely of ED. Your levels or testosterone drop as you age, exercise will ward off a drastic drop.

9. Cycling: Are you an avid cycler? Studies have shown that the longer you ride your bicycle, the higher your chance of developing ED. You do not have to stop riding though, just make some modifications. You can ride shorter distances, give yourself a rest, find comfortable seat and get a bike that is sized appropriately.

10. Your medications: Some medications like anti-hypertensives and antidepressants can cause erectile dysfunction. Talk to your doctor about other options.